9 Short Tips for Parents
Here are some one-line tips for parents, based on experience and observation. They are pretty self-explanatory, but if you need more information, please drop a line!
1. Speak Only After You Think: the mouth is trigger happier than the mind.
2. Recognise That You Are a Role Model: your child will grow into copying you, good or bad.
3. Show Spontaneous Affection: your child should learn that the world is made of love.
4. Give Positive, Accurate Feedback: children greatly appreciate knowing when they do right things.
5. Create a Safe and Loving Home Environment: we all need a base to return to and unwind.
6. Cooperation Beats Competition: our world-model is evolutionary, the survival of the fittest; our life model should be ecological, the survival of the most useful.
7. Pay Attention to What Interests Your Child: a child’s passions are the gateway to his or her future.
8. Blame Behaviour, Not Being: a child can behave wrongly while still being loved and loveable.
9. Each Child is Unique: comparisons with others chill the heart.